This mind-trick works really well for me: If I am confronted with someone who is making me angry and I feel that I am just about about to loose my temper, I remind myself to do the following: I just focus on a part of his or her face that I like. This can be the ear, the chin or the hairstyle. I will try to send my sympathy to this feature of my counterpart, or even my love if this is possible. My anger will become instantly much softer, sometimes it even disappears.
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